Wednesday, 31 October 2018

Call Me Monthly | October


Hello hello and welcome to another monthly round up; they seem to come round at quite an alarming rate don't they? October has been a busy one, or maybe that's just my life as I feel like I say that every month, but it's been excellent. Here's what I've been up to:

R E A D I N G  |  I read two books this month thanks to our flights to New York. The first was Force of Nature by Jane Harper, the story of a work team building exercise gone wrong. It was an alright read, but not quite gripping enough for me and the ending was slightly disappointing. The second was Our House by Louise Candlish, which I assumed was going to be a thriller from the cover and the blurb, but it was more crime I'd say. It was a very good read though; I even postponed trying to sleep on the night flight back so I could finish it and the ending of this one certainly didn't disappoint.

W A T C H I N G  |  In a shocking turn of events, I haven't binge watched anything this month. I'm very glad that Ambulance has started again though as I adore that programme. I always think if I didn't do what I did now I would be a paramedic, although I'm not sure I would actually have the guts (pardon the bad pun, I promise it was actually accidental) to deal with what they do.

L I S T E N I N G  |  I'm not ashamed to say that I'm very much still in an Arctic Monkeys spiral and just as I listened to them all month in the run up to seeing them, I've been listening to them all month again to mourn how amazing they were. I even made a Spotify playlist of their set on the night I saw them so I've had that pretty much on repeat. 

D O I N G  |  I could possibly write a whole post about this section; October has been a busy one (in a good way). At the start of the month it was our nephew's Christening and that was immediately followed by our trip to New York (which you can read about here). My friend and I made a start on a new venture (@stopmotionstories on Instagram if you fancy a nosey) and I feel like I'm finally back in the swing of things blog-wise. All in all, I liked you October.

What did you get up to in October?

Amy x
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Sunday, 28 October 2018

Fast Fashion | Guilt, Wariness and Decisions



Hello hello and welcome to a post on the topic that everyone is talking about thanks to that documentary. If you haven't watched it, I sincerely recommend that you do as it provides some serious pause for thought. In a nutshell, our addiction to fast fashion is seriously harming the environment as well as affecting people's lives and health.

I was a little late to the bandwagon so I'd already seen a fair few people air their thoughts on social media and I knew it would make me reassess my attitude to fast fashion. Said knowledge meant that I made an ASOS order right before I sat down to watch it, purely because I knew I wouldn't want to make one afterwards. I feel like I need to admit that because this certainly isn't a post in which I'm going to claim to be some sort of saint.

Anyway, it seems as thought this is becoming a topic of contention; I've seen influencers claim they'll be completely changing their shopping habits, I've seen influencers accuse other influencers of being fake and jumping on the bandwagon and some have simply kept quiet, because at the end of the day it's their livelihood and they can't just up and leave it can they?

I'm going to split this post into three sections; guilt, wariness and decisions (bet you didn't guess that from the title did you?) because I felt that was the best way to get all my opinions across without them becoming a jumbled mess of 'lol what's she trying to say here?' which seems to often be my trademark.

G U I L T  |  I'm sure most people who've watched the Stacey Dooley documentary felt this. We are the fast fashion generation; we like to express ourselves through clothes, they're available to us at the click of a button for affordable prices and new trends that we simply 'must have' are emerging all the time. Even as someone who isn't particularly trend led, I still buy a lot of clothes. It's my hobby, a way of expressing myself and I actually genuinely enjoy getting dressed in the morning. 

So after watching the documentary, then looking at my bulging wardrobe (plus the clothes rail and six drawers of overflow) I did feel incredibly guilty. Obviously I can claim 'oh but I didn't know', 'why did nobody ever tell me?', but the reality is I have made absolutely zero effort to find out where my clothes came from, where and how they were made and whether the process was at all ethical. 

I'm going to make a mass generalisation here so please don't be offended if this doesn't apply to you, but I think a lot of us are guilty of being ignorant. We simply choose to ignore or not find out about things and then when we do, we express our shock and outrage so we uphold our reputation as good people. Maybe we are good people, but that doesn't mean we haven't been ignorant and lazy (including myself in this by the way).


W A R I N E S S  |  And here enters the wariness. Yes I feel guilty about my consumption of fast fashion and I haven't bought any clothes since watching the documentary, but it's true that people do jump on the bandwagon with these kinds of issues and then forget about them when the uproar dies down. I don't want to be one of those people so I'm almost wary about speaking out too much in case I cave and miss ASOS too much.

I'm also aware that there are plenty of eco-friendly and sustainable bloggers already who, quite rightly, would look at me as someone who has zero right to speak about this issue because of my fast fashion consumption. 

But at the same time, any discussion surrounding the issue can only be a good thing as can any change, however big or small. 


D E C I S I O N S  |  Which brings me to...what am I actually going to do about it?

Well I'm certainly not making any grand gestures. I've deleted the ASOS app though and I'm going to do no spend November. I'm going to start using charity shops a lot more (luckily there's an excellent vintage one ten minutes from my house). 

I haven't found any sustainable clothing brands that I'm particularly excited about yet, especially as they are all expensive (yes I KNOW the point is to spend more on less, but my brain doesn't work that way) so I can't say I won't be making the odd high street purchase because I will be.

I've always shopped my wardrobe anyway (my bulging wardrobe is because I hardly ever get rid of anything) and I'll be digging out more outfits like the classic in this post, which I re-wear every autumn.

In my opinion, it's not about stopping completely or anything drastic, it's simply about being more mindful; changing whatever you're in a position to change and not jumping down the throats of people who aren't doing the same as you. 

What do you think?

Amy x






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Wednesday, 24 October 2018

[AD] Putting The Finishing Touches To Our Living Room

This post is sponsored by Soho Home.

I promise (to myself more than anyone else) that sometime soon I will do a living room transformation post, but there are still a couple of things that need finishing off and tweaking so in the meantime I thought I'd write about the things we've done to really make it feel homely, like our living room. 

I won't lie, I've grown quite tired of the renovation process; the relentless wallpaper stripping, floor sanding, painting etc etc, but what I do love is putting a room back together. I love choosing furniture, deciding what pictures to have on the wall, filling a room with rugs and sofa cushions

So that's what I'm going to document in this post; the finishing touches that I've loved taking time over, that add a bit of our personalities to the room and that make it an enjoyable place to spend time in.

S O F A  |   We decided on a corner sofa for the cosy factor and I'm so glad we did because I can basically make myself a warm little nest in the corner and binge watch TV. Pretty perfect winter situation amiright? I love adding cushions and throws to our sofa so we have rather a lot of them (enough for me to have a fair few guests over and allocate each of them their own throw #perfecthostess). I love how cushions and throws add colour to an otherwise neutral sofa and that they give the flexibility to add new colours into the room whenever you wish!

P R I N T  W A L L  |  I've written before about our print wall, which I spent rather a long time on, but I absolutely adore it. Because we didn't rush into choosing prints and other elements to put up, it feels really curated and special. I'm so pleased we decided to diversify it and include a mirror, clock and a hanging plant rather than just prints as it feels so thought out. I'm super happy with it.



R U G S  |  Having laminate floor in the living room means it looked (and felt) a little cold when we first put it down. We came up with the idea of having lots of different rugs in the room to add a bit of colour, texture and much needed warmth! I love the look of them layered and we're still adding to the collection! 

F U R N I T U R E  | I am very lucky that I have a clever husband who made our furniture for the living room, meaning that we didn't have to spend a lot of money on two tables and a TV stand that look amazing. We went for a lot of wood in the living room and it's quite a dark room to make it feel cosy so the wooden tables match the aesthetic perfectly. I'm very into mismatched furniture because I don't like things to look too uniform so they're all slightly different woods and we (I say we, I mean Nick) added a touch of grey paint to the TV stand to match the grey of the sofa. 

What are your favourite finishing touches to your living room?

Amy x
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Sunday, 21 October 2018

My #IdealHotspot | Kitchen


I think I'm just about getting used to the idea of Autumn. This summer was a difficult one to say goodbye to, especially as it seemed to disappear so quickly, but the idea of snug nights in and all the knitwear is starting to make me feel the tiniest bit excited.

Throughout Autumn, the HEY Bloggers founders (myself, Emma, Ashton, Violet, Jenny and Alex) will each be sharing a room in our house that we've made seasonal updates to, a room that becomes a 'hotspot' for us during the colder months, in collaboration with Ideal Boilers. This is not a sponsored post, but some of the items featured have been purchased with a voucher provided by the lovely team at Ideal Boilers.

When you think of making a room snug for the colder months, the kitchen isn't a room that would immediately spring to mind. Maybe you think of your warm living room or the bed you never want to leave on those cold mornings.

However, as our kitchen doubles up as a dining room, we really do spend a lot of time in there. I eat my breakfast in there everyday and when Nick and I do have a rare meal time together (#shiftworklife) we always eat at the table (not because we're traditional, but because I don't trust Nick to not spill on the sofa).

 I also love playing host and we had a fair few BBQs over summer; with it being a bit too cold for those now I thought what better way to welcome the cold weather than making sure our kitchen is equipped to host throughout autumn and winter too. Without further ado, this is how I'm making our kitchen into our hotspot:




A T M O S P H E R E  |  Nothing says autumn to me more than candles and fairy lights because they add such an atmosphere of warmth to a room. I picked up these fairy lights* from Wilko's and they look so cute hung round our mirror, but for dinner parties (lol I say dinner parties trying to sound sophisticated, I basically mean having friends over for lasagne) they make such a good table decoration. I have candles burning in every room throughout autumn and winter and the kitchen is no exception. Yankee Candle are a long term favourite of mine and they've just launched a new range called Just Go,* inspired by travel and allowing us to take our summer memories into autumn with us! My favourite is misty mountains; it smells super fresh and rids the kitchen of any pesky food smells in no time.

W A R M T H  |  Moving on from an atmosphere of warmth to actual warmth...put the heating on! I jest, I'm sure you don't need a blog post to tell you to put your heating on. I'm talking about blankets and throws because they don't just have to be for the bed or the sofa. I personally love a throw* over the back of my dining room chairs that I can make use of if I'm feeling a little chilly. They also just look nice and add a little summin' summin' don't they?

T H E  T A B L E  |   In the lead up to Christmas (I'm sorry, I know, I said the 'C' word) I always feel more in the mood for making my table look aesthetically pleasing (sorry for using the phrase aesthetically pleasing, but I find it a very aesthetically pleasing phrase). I think it's probably down to all the home magazines/interior shops showing off Christmas table displays, but isn't it funny how making your table look nice makes for a more enjoyable meal? This set up is certainly preferable to the jumble of junk mail/keys/screwdrivers that usually graces our kitchen table. I'm obsessed with wood at the moment, which is handy because Nick has just started making real wooden chopping boards so I'll be displaying food on those and on this slate one* I picked up in Wilko's.




Which room in your house is your #IdealHotspot?

Amy x

*gifted items


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Wednesday, 17 October 2018

New York, New York

New York is somewhere I've wanted to visit for a long time, but somewhere that's never really been affordable to us and somewhere we actually dismissed as a honeymoon destination for that reason. However, it turns out that people are rather generous when you get married and despite not asking for gifts, we did receive quite a bit of money. 

So obviously instead of putting it to any sort of good use around the house/garden/savings account, we booked a holiday to New York.

As a first-timer, I wanted to do all the stereotypical New York stuff so we decided to buy New York Passes, which would cover everything we wanted to do. As well as just have a general chit chat about what we did, I'll let you know my thoughts on whether the pass was worth it or not. We actually got ours in a sale, and from keeping an eye on them for a while I can tell you that they do have sales fairly frequently so it's definitely worth waiting for one of those so you get even more money off. 


D A Y  O N E  |  We had very sore feet at the end of day one and when I checked my steps on my phone it turns out that may be because we unknowingly walked 15 miles...

Day one began with an early wake up at 5.30 because our body clocks were obviously still attuned to UK time. It was actually quite nice to wake up so early to the view of the city through our hotel (huge) window and actually feel awake, then be able to get ready at leisure and still be out on the street at 7.30.

The first thing we did was head to The Rockefeller Center, via Times Square just to see it (anti-climatic during the day FYI) and we were some of the first people in the (non-existent) queue to head to the Top of the Rock. It was a bit foggy, but despite the fact that we probably couldn't see as far as you usually can, I thought it added a certain breathtaking atmosphere to the experience.

As the Museum of Modern Art is pretty much next door, we headed there next and we also visited The Met on our first day too. The MoMA is quite quick to wander around, but The Met is similar to The V&A (i.e. absolutely huge and full of so much stuff you could be in there all day). We grabbed a map and decided which sections of it we wanted to see as well as googling any paintings we definitely wanted to see to see where they were.

It's worth mentioning that we didn't pay for anything apart from food on our first day because everything we did was covered by the New York Pass. One thing we did that I don't think we would have if it hadn't been included (simply because we wouldn't have thought of it) was hire bikes to cycle around Central Park. 

Central Park is absolutely huge and a bit of a labyrinth so a cycle ride was an excellent way to take a lot of it in without getting lost or spending a full day in there. I finally learnt how to use my gears properly too (three cheers?).

To finish the day we went to the top of the Empire State Building (via Grand Central Station to have a nosey - can confirm it's as beautiful as everyone says). The queue for the Empire State Building was a bit of a mare, but worth it for the nighttime views. I'd definitely recommend going up one of the tall buildings at nighttime because it's actually more impressive than during the day (I was v happy we did one of each though). 



D A Y  T W O  |  Day Two was a much more sobering day because we decided to do all the 9/11 stuff. It was so so upsetting, but I also feel like it's very important to see if you're in New York because it's such a massive part of everyone's lives there and obviously had an enormous impact.

We began with the 9/11 Ground Zero workshop, which is actually in Chelsea. It was a very small museum set up by the official photographer of the recovery operation, who also captured a photo of 9/11 happening from the top of the very building the workshop is in. A lot of his photographs, plus artefacts recovered from the rubble are displayed there and you're told the story behind each one. You will leave very humbled. 

For some light relief, we walked the High Line back to Midtown then hopped on the water taxi to take us round to the 9/11 memorial and museum. The memorials are an absolutely stunning tribute and the museum in between them tells the story of what happened on that day. Again, it's very upsetting, but important.

We hopped back on the water taxi in time for sunset, which takes you all around Manhattan and also stops off right next to the Statue of Liberty for a photo opportunity. 


D A Y  T H R E E  |  It absolutely chucked it down on this day so we needed to do something inside. Because the hop on/off bus tour was included in our New York Pass we decided to use that to get around and we caught it to Central Park where we visited the Natural History Museum. 

Again, this was huge and you could spend a long time there so we narrowed down what we wanted to see and wandered round that (drying off in the process) because despite catching the bus we got abolutely soaked walking through Central Park to the museum. 

Because there was so much of New York we still hadn't seen (and weren't going to get the chance to) we decided to do almost the full hop on/off bus tour in order to see it. A bus tour isn't something we would usually do, but it was actually a really good way to see the city (despite switching between the top and lower decks every time it started or stopped raining). The tour took about two hours in total and I was glad we'd at least seen some of the parts of New York we wanted even if we hadn't explored them.

Day three was also the last day of our New York pass, as we opted for a three day one. Absolutely everything listed above was covered by the pass so the only expense we had was food. We did tot it all up and if we'd paid for everything it would have been double the price we paid for the pass. That probably means we wouldn't have actually done all of it, so for both of those reasons it's definitely worth it (for first timers at least). We only scratched the surface with what's available on the pass; almost everything you'd want to do in New York is covered.


D A Y  F O U R  |  Our last day we didn't have the pass so we wanted to stick to doing free things and I wanted to get a bit further afield. We got the subway to Brooklyn, where we had coffee and a wander along the river. There's immediately a completely different vibe in Brooklyn and if I go back I think I'd want to stay that side of the river for sure. 

We crossed the Brooklyn Bridge (which I'm actually shocked that people sit on for photos because people were sitting on a ledge directly above the road, soz side note from sensible Amy but seriously). We then walked all the back from the bridge to our hotel in Midtown, stopping along the way in parks and for lunch (luckily it was a beautiful day). 

One of my favourite things to do anywhere is to just walk around because I always find you see so much of a place so despite really not doing much apart from walking and eating on our last day, I think it was my favourite. 


Have you ever been to New York?

Amy x
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Sunday, 7 October 2018

See Yourself Through Someone Else's Eyes



When you look at yourself in the mirror what do you see?

I'd bet that you don't see the person you actually are. I'd bet you see the things you dislike about yourself without taking the time to appreciate the things you do. I'd bet you see someone very different to who everyone else sees.

I see a girl (well, woman I suppose, got to stop calling myself a girl at some point haven't I?) with an out of proportion body, boobs that are too small and thighs that are too big. I see a face with insignificant features, apart from a ginormous nose plonked in the middle for good measure. I see hair that doesn't quite know whether it's straight or wavy and never does what it's supposed to. 

But is that what I actually look like?

Posting pictures of myself on the internet (not like that you dirty noggins) has given me more confidence in how I look, but it's also given me an appreciation of what I might look like to other people because I'm pretty sure most people don't see what I see in the mirror.

I've said this before and I'll say it again: beauty is subjective and so are flaws. 

We all spend too much time focusing on our flaws, which is a word that I hate because what even is a flaw apart from something we imagine to be bad in our own heads?




Dress - Primark | Boots - New Look via ASOS (here *aff) 

Photography - Ashton Gibbs

Your friends don't see the things you dislike about your body because they're too busy worrying about their own insecurities. Your other half doesn't think your features are insignificant because they're what make you YOU and they think you're beautiful. Strangers in the street don't see your misbehaving hair because we all want what we don't have.

Try looking at yourself through someone else's eyes; what would they see?

We spend so much time being jealous of other people's features that we don't wonder what they may be jealous of us for. Everyone has been jealous of someone and that means that someone has been jealous of you. Take some time to think; what would they have been jealous of? What do you like about yourself? What do you not like about yourself that you think others probably do?




You might not think you're beautiful, but somebody does.

Amy x
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Wednesday, 3 October 2018

A Set List Of Things That Happened At Arctic Monkeys


Four Out Of Five. Doesn't time fly? Months since we booked our tickets to see Arctic Monkeys, it finally happened on Friday.

Brianstorm. We got top marks for not trying and got right to the front.

Snap Out Of It. 15-year old fangirl Amy well and truly resurfaced on Friday and I still can't snap out of it.

Crying Lightning. One of the most surreal things I've experienced at a gig was the support act actually getting heckled off the stage, which consisted of the strange premature departure of the lead singer after repeatedly whacking himself on the head with his mic...yes, really. 

One Point Perspective. We quite literally lost our train of thought when the next day we managed to be half an hour early for our train only to miss it because we were too busy watching videos from the night before.

Teddy Picker. I was planning on putting something on Instagram stories the same night, but I was actually so overwhelmed I had to save it for the morning after.

One For The Road. Getting tickets for Newcastle was a double whammy of happy and such a nostalgic feeling looking around the arena knowing I've been here before because it was where I saw my very first concert (Smash Hits cause I was cool). 

Don't Sit Down 'Cause I've Moved Your Chair. I certainly didn't expect the middle aged woman behind me to start a fight and I certainly didn't expect her to try to strangle a guy...

505. Cue me and Ashton afterwards googling any other upcoming Arctic Monkeys gigs whether they'd take a seven hour flight or a 45 minute drive.

Tranquility Base Hotel & Casino. We popped on Arctic Monkeys while we were getting ready (obviously) to really get me in the mood.

The Ultracheese. As soon as the first song started the crowd surged forwards and went mad, which I haven't experience in a while, but didn't that used to be part of the fun?

Dancing Shoes. While we were waiting and waiting for Arctic Monkeys to come onstage I was whacked on the head, called 'huffy' and nearly deafened. I'm the innocent party here.

Knee Socks. I bought a sweater and some socks, despite the fact that I'll probably just wear them to walk around the house, although the sweater is only low key fangirl so who knows...

Do Me A Favour. I think I'm going to be mourning the gig for several hours or several weeks because it was just SO good. 

Cornerstone. Despite there being a lot of pushing and shoving like at any gig, we were luckily surrounded by mostly lovely people who apologised awfully politely whenever they were squashed up against us. 

Pretty Visitors. Sorry for fangirling (again), but you can't beat that moment they first came on stage and started playing. Everyone waved their arms. 

Do I Wanna Know? Ashton managed to catch my favourite part of 505 on her phone and I still play it on repeat until I fall asleep, much to Nick's annoyance.

Arabella. Forget that little lady Arabella, we've already decided that the next song Alex Turner writes is going to be titled Girl In The CrowdYes, it's about me.

Star Treatment. Golden boy's certainly not in bad shape. Those hips though...need I say more?

Mardy Bum. A perfect description of me getting sad before it was even over because I knew it was about to be...I'd certainly got the face on.

I Bet That You Look Good On The Dancefloor. You bet wrong Alex. At this point, I'm pretty sure I was just a squished head poking out of the crowd screaming lyrics and holding onto Ashton for dear life.

R U Mine? R U Alex?
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